In my seminars #theforceinyou i am always teaching that its a choice to be a victim or the offender. You can choose every 8 seconds a new reality and also be able to go into selfmastery and create the situation you want. Its always your choice if you go into selfresponsibility and do your thing and focus on the solution or you choose to be a victim of the self created problems and cry about them the whole life. The top 3 excuses from a victim who dont want to go on in his life and love to stay in his paining comfortzone are ..: i have no time, i have no money, i have children… and the favourite words in their vocabolary is NO and BUT. So how more you are aware of this how easier you will immediatly see if the person wants to be a victim or not. Victims always have a answer why they cant do anything and why they are trapped. So instead of letting go and looking for a new perspective they just want to be in right that they have the right to have their problem and they will defend it as long as possible. So dont listen to any storys and stop creating one. Its all about manipulation just that the person can stay in their own created victim role. Questions will be like : could you be so nice to do me a favour, because you are stronger, taller ect…no the real fact is you are just to lazy bastard /bitch and to comfortable in your confizone to do it by yourself. There are people without limbs who are more active and living then you!!